IconPackager is my whim of choice. It has ability to change just about everything. If changin the start bar icons is all your after try a right click on your Dtop/properties/desktop/customize desktop.
I got IconPackager now, and it just said that it cant change Windows XP Classic Startmenu items or wahtever, and its a windows limitation not icon packager
reshack shell32.dll thats the way i did them on some of my screenshots. i cant remember the exact ones i changed. i just changed the ones i thought to be the right ones :\ dodgy
ummm there are some independent programs that can change some of the icons exclusively in the start menu, but i think learning to reshack would be very beneficial (you can do some amazing things with it....)
Reshackin icons really comes down to your import skills (ie replace resourse). Find the one to change, importy a newy. Bling! Money shot. If dont know which to change....shiz get dirty and go for the gold, change em all. Tis the essence of custo'
Also, I like long soothing walks on clothing optional beaches. Any takers?