i was wondering..can anyone (especially girls) tell me why girls say that men are such a dicks..that we cheat on them..that we can't have a tru relationship...when it's the other way arround...they're are the ones that make us suffer and the ones who cheat on us...I don't get it..for real!
It's means your an asshole and you probably did something wrong. Not all women are like the one you just described. Men have that reputation more then wemon do.
you can't make blanket statements about either sex. Men cheat on women and women cheat on men. i'd say your opinion is influenced by your current relationship - feel better man.
The numbers of who cheats on who are evening up. Newsweek ran a Cover Story on it about a month ago.
http://msnbc.msn.com/id/5359395/site/newsweek/ _______________ "To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public." ---Theodore Roosevelt
Also, if she is cheating on you, kick her bitch ass to the curb and move on. She's an STD waiting to happen.
_______________ "To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public." ---Theodore Roosevelt
It's not a matter of man vs. woman...and who does what more...it's a matter of involving yourself with the type of person that won't do something like that.
If you're the kind of guy who likes to pick up girls at bars, then remember that you're picking up the kind of girl who WANTS to be picked up at a bar.
::shrug::
There's no universal statement that makes men better than women, or vice versa. Do your own thing in relationships or otherwise.
I'm accepting applications for a girlfriend. Please include your relationship resume with the application.
_______________ "To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public." ---Theodore Roosevelt
For me i think an attitude is based on experiences you made. There are not many "must" sentences i like to keep or write.
But the one saying make as much experiences and things as you can do is the one i keep close to my heart. Only then you know what´s right or wrong for yourself. Equal if mum and dad are saying it´s the right way to study and be a respected personality because of your gradutation. You see that what people say means more than the real content they describe with their spoken words. This one sentence i am saying to myself everyday "what rob says about tom says more about rob than about tom" is the base for my eductional work. you are a great boy zorlac. it´s one person telling you her opion based on her experiences. The world is endless big. Even your surrounding is.. Those have been more "you must" sentences then i wanted to write.
I´ve been in a situation with a girl once as i was around 15, 16. I felt like dying. Like my stomach will break the next minute and my selfconcidence was around zero or even down under. Put your head up high my friend and don´t let those things fight your heart so close. You are not an asshole because of an endless discussion between parties.
zorlac - trust me, the girl isn't worth it. if she's cheating on you and insults you when you tell her that you love her...then she's just dumb. lots of girls now days have commitment problems, or they expect to be treated poorly 'cause it's what they see. it's what they think is the way relationships are supposed to go.
just remember that there's better girls out there and you'll find one someday that is right for you. it just takes a while to find the right one.
Complex and/or serious relationships are way overrated if you ask me... See people, don't date or become 'involved'. Enjoy your youth, we only have it once.
Have you noticed that we say to FALL in love (like in French: TOMBER amoureux), never to rise in love, or to fly in love: that means a lot about our cultures and how we are taught to see the phenomenon, no?
yeah...maybe that's it..maybe i'm just saying this because girls I've had a relationship with can't have commitment problems as Fenris said.. Seriously..I think i'll only find the right girl for my when I'm about 25... o_O or maybe this Sarah friend that I'm talking to a lot recently is the one..I think I'm one of those ppl who fear lonelyness..
there may be many fish in the sea, but who's looking for a girlfiend in the sea. seriously zorlac? you need to talk to that imrik more (imrik you should be a speaker or something useful).
is it fair to say, chicks have far more credit on their mobiles than the boys and that the phones in the first place are the reason most relationships don't work because they never communicate face to face?
Wow, everytime Imrik gets hold of a keyboard I think,"what the hell is he talking about". But then after analyzing his posts many times over, I realize that this dude has his shit together. Props to you Imrik
imrik, you kick ass. qwertz, fishing needs practice.
and zorlac, chill- everyone's had it happen to 'em. well almost. ok, so me too.
but i think that if you're able to get over it in a jiffy, thats good for you. like i managed to pull off. [its supposed to be an aquarian thing, and being an aquarian, i could'nt be bothered with something for more than an hour...]
go for the new gal zorlac. its gonna help you forget your ex-bitch ass.
You guys are crazy. Typical males. You guys are only saying this shit because your saying it to other males. Either that or you guys have problems getting girls. Relationships nor love is overrated. When guys fall inlove they are like little puppy dogs. They'll do anything for you. If it doesn't work out then it doesn't work out. Get over it. Don't let that hold you back from falling inlove again. It's just one step closer to finding the right one.
so does that make me non-typical for believing in it?
I know it when I see it, atleast from my side... I loved her once, but she was a cheating hoebag. I never let that stop me from trying again(with someone else ofcourse... once a hoebag, always a hoebag).
_______________ "To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public." ---Theodore Roosevelt
Funny thread this, alot people coming out of there shells and showing there 'Real' side if thats the right way to put it. And no offense intended but those here who maybe dont have a g/f, b/f its probily got nothing to do with being really ugly (cos other ugly people need some luvin' too!) its probily cos they spend to much time on there computer here or on irc's wotever , get out on a friday,saturady and shake some ass! get yourself back on the shelf and find someone! Where not all the ugly (oh wait i forget to look at the corkboard)
That was deep, need some sleep now, hard work this!
no, it's not due to ugly, it's due to working a 3rd shift job, which effectively neutralizes any and all free "nights"
_______________ "To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public." ---Theodore Roosevelt
There are dogs and pimps in both sexes. Not just guys, and not just girls.
I've known some guys who are just DOGS and I hated it..they got what they wanted and kicked the girl to the curb..kinda sad. But then again, I know girls the same way. Then, there are guys who want to be real and have a long relationship. Then the girl is like "i don't think so!" BAM she's cheatin with his fat 9 year old zit faced red-headed little brother.
It works both ways, and it's totally unfair making generalizations about an entire sex.
_______________ "To announce that there must be no criticism of the president, or that we are to stand by the president right or wrong, is not only unpatriotic and servile, but is morally treasonable to the American public." ---Theodore Roosevelt
ha, yip uni's are todays "baywatch" scene. living off mummy (pronounced the proper english way : m-um-e, stupid freedom fries) and daddy is sweet (for the next four months anyway).
if you were just turning 17 next year would you go flatting or get into a hostel for the period of your degree (looking at a 4 year double ba. in IT and creative industries)?
Definitely hostel first year! You tend to want to flat from then on. You make lifelong friends in first year at the hostel as everyone's kinda thrown in the deep end.
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